9 signs you're in love with a narcissist
If this scenario sounds familiar, you might be dating an overt narcissist. These individuals don't usually give a negative impression from the outside. On the contrary, they tend to be cheerful and romantic.
Overt narcissists are outgoing and confident individuals. At the beginning of a relationship, they project a loving, even "too good to be true" image. However, over time, their true colors begin to emerge. They have a need to always be right and receive attention.
According to Marriage.com, the telltale signs that you are with an overt narcissist include:
1. They want to be the most noticeable person in any environment. They dominate conversations with stories, jokes, or groundbreaking opinions.
2. They constantly seek approval. They want to be praised for their appearance, decisions, or achievements. They may become angry or withdrawn when you share your ideas or don't offer compliments.
3. They can't stand criticism. Even if you approach them in the most constructive way, they can react defensively and angrily. They perceive every criticism as a personal attack.
4. No matter what, at the end of the day, it's always your fault. If they yell, it's because you made them angry. If they're upset, it's because you're too sensitive.
5. The beginning of a relationship is passionate and intense. However, once you become emotionally attached, they'll put up walls. These ups and downs can make you dependent on them over time.
6. When you're hurting, they may seem interested, but they lack emotional depth. Empathy only comes into play when it serves their own interests.
7. You look like the “perfect couple” on the outside. Happy photos are shared on social media, but behind the scenes, things are different.
8. You become their supporter, organizer, and morale booster. When you expect something in return, you're accused of being selfish.
9. They may lie, deny what they said, or distort the facts. Over time, you may become unable to trust your own memory.
Loving a narcissist can lead to deep emotional turmoil. The narcissistic partner's heightened attraction makes it easier for the victim to be exploited.
Experts emphasize that these feelings are completely human, and that feeling this way doesn't make the victim weak. Remember, healing doesn't happen instantly. However, when a person begins to listen to themselves, the process can evolve into a healthier one.
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